I want to send my sincere condolences to Tony’s family—to his wife and children—also to his parents, Denis and Leta. (Denis is my cousin)
All of you are in my prayers during this difficult time. I am so sorry for the heartbreaking loss of your loved one. May God Bless each of you in a special way.
Sending my love.
Jolene Grant
April 14, 2023
Just heard the news about the loss of Tony. He was a legend in my eyes- as a husband, father, friend, athlete and son. From the first moment you met Tony, you knew he was a genuinely kind and caring person. His smile was a reflection of his soul. He will be greatly missed but lives on in each of you. I hold great admiration for the Moeder family. You are the definition of LOVE. My deepest condolences. Sending love and hugs from an “old” preschool friend from the past,
Mrs. Sheri Miller and family
Sheri Miller
April 14, 2023
Dear Kathy, Kyle, and Mary Kate,
Words are hard to come by and there has just been a tapestry of emotions over the course of Tony's dementia journey..and even more so the days following his last breath on earth. Reflecting though, all of you have handled this life change with an amazing grace, an immeasurable strength, and an everlasting love for each other that will help light your path out of this darkness.
Tony was amazing and there are memories that will never fade away. We sit here and reminisce...we laugh at remembering and then the sadness creeps back in. We are going to miss his craziness and warmth, his Godfather and Silence of the Lambs reenactments, and we'll hold Tony every second of the day in our hearts!
Know that we are here always, for whatever you may need, day or night, a mere phone call away.
All of our love, hugs, and God's peace!
Lisa and Randy
April 13, 2023
So sorry to hear of Tony's passing. Met Tony thru the Office Supply orders and he was a joy to know. We will be thinking of you during this time.
Joanne Pontius-Bauer
April 12, 2023
Kathy you have such a rock for your kids and never missed a moment to spend with Tony. God truly knew what he was doing when he set your path up to meet. Tony was funny caring and loving he was so helpful to everyone around him. You may have lost a husband and the kids a father but you've all gained a guardian angel that will be there forever. He will never be forgotten. Condolences from the whole Troupe Family we love you
Troupe family
April 11, 2023
SO SORRY TO HEAR OF TONY'S PASSING.YOU ARE ALL IN MY THOUGHTS & PRAYERS. SUCH A NICE GUY! KEEP SHARING ALL OF THE GREAT MEMORIES YOU ALL HAVE.KNOW THAT HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE & AT PEACE. PRAYERS TO ALL.
MINDY SHELANGOSKI
April 11, 2023
Dearest Kathy- I never had a chance to meet Tony, but he sounds like he was an amazing and wonderful husband, father, son and friend. I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish you much love and comfort of beautiful memories that will last forever. Much love to you.
Bobbi Altorfer Armould
April 11, 2023
I want to send my sincere condolences to Tony’s family—to his wife and children—also to his parents, Denis and Leta. (Denis is my cousin)
All of you are in my prayers during this difficult time. I am so sorry for the heartbreaking loss of your loved one. May God Bless each of you in a special way.
Sending my love.
Jolene Grant
April 11, 2023
Dearest Kathy- I never had a chance to meet Tony, but he sounds like he was an amazing and wonderful husband, father, son and friend. I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish you much love and comfort of beautiful memories that will last forever. Much love to you.
Bobbi Altorfer Armould
April 10, 2023
Kathy, Kyle and Mary Kate-
John 14:6 I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.
We pray for peace for your entire family.
Phil, Jen, Jakob Forslund and Mitchell Ahrendsen
Jen and Phil Forslund
April 10, 2023
Kathy, Kyle and Mary Kate.
We are so sorry for your loss. We are praying for you all during this difficult time. May Jesus keep his loving arms around you. Keep Tony close to your hearts and keep
Sharing lots of memories of him
With each other !
Michele. Michael Jr and Matthew Mims
Michele Mims
April 9, 2023
Kathy, my sympathy to you and your family in the loss of Tony??
Carmen Wessels
Carmen Wessels
April 9, 2023
My condolences Kathy. Tony will always be one of my favorite teammates and it was an honor to play with him and see him on occasion after we were done playing. He was always proud of you and the family. The news may not have been a surprise but it was heartbreaking nonetheless. You guys are in our prayers and we will miss him.
Todd Takayoshi
April 9, 2023
To Kathy & family,
My sincere sympathies. Saddened to see this in today’s Gazette, even though it’s been a long time coming. The event itself is always overwhelming when it arrives, in spite of what we know. I still have Tony’s autographed baseball (a home run ball he hit & I retrieved) proudly displayed in my basement bar, where it will always remain. He hit that one a mile that day. Love to you all.
Craig Schulte
April 8, 2023
So sorry for your loss Kathy. I never met Tony but you talked about him in the most wonderful ways. He is at peace now so take comfort in knowing that.
Laura Kloubec
April 7, 2023
Kathy and Family…I was deeply saddened to learn of your loss of such a loved one. I send from Surprise, AZ my sincere condolences, prayers, and love to your fine family…..Judy Carmichael
Judy. Carmichael
April 7, 2023
Tony was such a good man! He was so nice and caring and just someone you enjoyed being around. His disease was so unfair and an example of bad things happening to good people. A tribute to Tony is the most wonderful children he had and his totally devoted, loving, and strong wife! Among other things they will be his legacy to all of us going forward. Please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your entire family and your large circle of friends.
John Wollner
April 7, 2023
Kathy and family:
Please accept my condolences on your loss. It is never easy losing someone you love. Hold on to those memories, continue to hear his voice and don’t ever stop talking to him. He is with you always. I hope that comfort and peace come to you. I know that he will truly be missed. Prayers for your hearts to heal.
You are in my prayers and thoughts.
May God bless all of you.
Hugs
Jim Voss
Jim Voss
April 7, 2023
I knew Tony in high school at USDHS. He always had a smile for everyone and a terrific sense of humor. He treated everyone with kindness and respect and made everyone feel welcomed and included. What a tremendous loss for his family, community, and this world. Love to all who knew him.
Jennifer Crooks
April 7, 2023
Kathy and family - our deepest sympathies on the passing of Tony! sending prayers snd hugs! We hope the wonderful memories you hold will help you through thus difficult time.
Shari & Steve Konarske
April 6, 2023
Please accept our deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers!
The Ballinger’s of Cedar Rapids
April 6, 2023
Kathy and family, sending my most sincere condolences and sympathies to you at this difficult time . Hugs
Nicole McGriff-Olson
April 6, 2023
Moeder family
Our sincere condolences to your family. The bond between all of you reminds me of my family. Your love for each other is contagious. Tony has finally "hit a home run with God". God bless. Chris jennings
Chris jennings
April 6, 2023
I would like to share my thoughts and prayers with Tony's family at this time, I will always cherish the time I knew Tony, he always made me laugh. I loved when he and I would quote one of our favorite movies: Scarface, He was the best Tony Montona, I will miss you. With Love and Prayers to he and his family, JD
jason william davis
April 6, 2023