Dan and I were in graduate school together. Even though we were only in the program together for a few short years and we didn't keep in touch, he had a big impact on my life and I am a better person for knowing him. My deepest condolences to his loved ones.
Judy Moskowitz
November 1, 2017
They say the hardest goodbyes are when the story was not finished, and surely Dan was a beautiful unfinished song. I was lucky to attend graduate school with Dan, and his inner light was like a natural sunshine that radiated to all of us. I send condolences to his family and friends at Coe College.
Dawn Dekle
November 1, 2017
I'm in shock -- I just googled my old friend and found this instead of some cool thing he was doing.
Dan was the most caring and thoughtful person. Late, here, but he will be missed greatly.
Bennett Schwartz
November 1, 2017
Two and a half weeks, and I am still totally at a loss. The premature death of this great man is devastating. I want to extend my condolences and gratitude to the family and friends of Dan Lehn. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dr. Lehn was very dear to me. When I attended Coe, he was my advisor, work study supervisor, and friend. He cared so much for the students, other faculty, staff, and most of all you his family. As you are well aware, he enjoyed telling stories, so I have heard a lot about all of you. Lauri, he was so proud to be lucky enough to build a life with you. Even after I graduated from Coe, we would e-mail occasionally, and he would always add snippets of his happiness over having dinner with you, Jake and Tanya, getting a visit or phone call from Kelsey, and of course getting to spend time with his beloved Henry. He truly loved you all. Thank you for sharing him with us. I can't imagine Coe without him. I am where I am today because of him. That sounds cliche, but he really believed in me, and encouraged me when I had my doubts. Then even though he wasn't a pre-med advisor he took on the challenge of writing me a letter of recommendation for medical school. I was not the typical straight A pre-med student, so I know that not only am I here because of his encouragement through undergrad, but for the convincing letter he must have written on my behave. I guarantee that I am not the only student who he helped to achieve their dreams. He will be missed, but his legacy will live on through each of us. So again, I thank you for sharing him with us, and I hope we can honor his memory by spreading the love, kindness, and commitment he taught us.
Vanessa Lowdon
August 6, 2016
Our words are inadequate at this time. Your family and Dan are in so many of our childhood memories back in Fairfield. Our hearts go out to you in your time of great sorrow. Glenn Byron (Kim), Nancy Carroll (Ed)
Nancy Carroll
July 28, 2016
Learning of Dan's tragic death was truly shocking.Dan and I have kept in touch for over 40 years since our days at St. Pius X School in Fairfield CT.
The student-teacher relationship grew into a true friendship over the years of which I have fond memories. Though I hadn't seen him for a number of years, I always looked forward to his Christmas cards which kept me in touch with him and his family.Lauri, though I never met you, I know you and Dan had a wonderful relationship. To you, Barbara, Steve, Dave, Greg, Randy and Matt my heartfelt sympathy and prayers
Rudy Costello
July 26, 2016
Dear Lehn Family,
I met Dan about 20 years ago, when the two of us were at an ACM conference together in St. Paul. I think I introduced Dan to sushi at that meeting. He invited me to come speak at Coe a couple of times, and he served as an outside examiner on one of my student's Honors defenses here at Knox College. I remember that day he came over to my house in the country for lunch and afterwards took a nap in our hammock.
I remember Dan as a really funny and warm man. I'm sure he was a great teacher, mentor, father, and husband I'm also sure that you must miss him a lot.
Please accept my sympathies.
Tim Kasser
Professor & Chair of Psychology
Knox College
Tim Kasser
July 26, 2016
To the Lehn Family: Please accept my deepest sympathy on Dan's ultimely passing. It has been many many years since I had seen Dan. We graduated from Notre Dame together in 1976 and had some brief contact right after high school - namely through get togethers with our Physics class at Mr. Holst's home. He was truly a special guy and he is a huge part of my happy high school memories. Again my deepest sympathy to all of you.
Angela Longo Pelletier
July 26, 2016
Dear Lehn family, I am very sorry for the loss of your loved one. May your family find a measure of comfort in God's promise of paradise where there will be no more pain, sickness, or sorrow due to the loss of your loved one, and the hope of being reunited in the future paradise in perfect health. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Revelation 21 : 4 - Psalms 37 : 4,29
Fred
July 26, 2016
Dr. Lehn was my thesis advisor and always encouraged me to do my best work. I am so sorry to hear of his untimely passing, he was a great mentor. My thoughts are with his family and friends.
Katie Moon
Coe College '03
Katie Moon
July 24, 2016
Dr. Lehn's family: My deepest sympathies and condolences to all of you. I'm '05 alum of Coe and Dr. Lehn was my advisor and we became friends over the years. He meant a lot to me and I will miss his humor, stories and kindness. I truly admired and respected him. My son's middle name is Daniel after Dr. Lehn because he had all the traits that I want my son to have as a person. As I grieve, I have kept all of you in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to do so. I hope your memories and how many people he touched will eventually bring you some peace and comfort.
Melissa Lajoie
July 24, 2016
Dr. Lehn's family: My deepest sympathies and condolences to all of you. I'm '05 alum of Coe and Dr. Lehn was my advisor and we became friends over the years. He meant a lot to me and I will miss his humor, stories and kindness. I truly admired and respected him. My son's middle name is Daniel after Dr. Lehn because he had all the traits that I want my son to have as a person. As I grieve, I have kept all of you in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to do so. I hope your memories and how many people he touched will eventually bring you some peace and comfort.
Melissa Lajoie
July 24, 2016
Lauri I am out of country visiting kids for month of July. I got word of Dan's death and am so deeply saddened. Though I am so far away, my heart is there with you. Such a huge loss for so many, but it is for you and your family that I feel profound sympathy.
Robyn
Robyn Krell
July 24, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I was lucky to have Dan as a professor and to get a chance to know him. Dan saw the psychology major inside of me within the first month of Intro. I was an uncertain 18 year old and he encouraged me to do what felt right. His confidence in me every step of the way made such an impact on me. I'm so grateful for him. My thoughts and love are with your family. -Emily, Coe Class of 2015
Emily Williams
July 23, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. I am a 2010 graduate from Coe and had Dan for a couple of his classes, including a seminar. He was an incredible educator, continuously improving his practice. I loved learning from him because it was truly enjoyable and challenging. He made you laugh every day, but he always held you to a high standard and never let you do less than your best.
He was also one of the kindness, most perceptive people I've ever met. While in his class, I got some not-so-great family news. He gave exactly the right balance between support and space. When we finished his seminar, he invited us to his home and served us homemade desserts. Dan purposefully built community, and that's why so many people remember him fondly.
Again, I'm so sorry for your loss, and you are in my thoughts.
Malyssa Oblander
July 23, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I had Mr Lehn for Algerba at Paul VI, I will remember him for his funny stories and sense of humor.
Julia Streeter
July 23, 2016
When we, the entire Fairfield family heard about Dan's death, it did'nt seem real. Growing up together on Mt. Laurel RD I thought of all the fun and silly thin gs they went thru together. I am so sad for all the Lehn family. But I am greatful for all the happy memories. Dan we will miss you. Love Grace Fairfield
Grace Fairfield
July 23, 2016
When I heard the news of Dan's passing yesterday, I was shocked and deeply saddened. I still can't believe it. Dan was a former graduate student of mine, a colleague, research collaborator, and friend for 25 years. We talked and joked with each other almost every month - more than I talk to my own brothers and sisters. His sense of warmth and sense of humor was infectious, and although most of our conversations were supposed to be about various research projects, they were just as much an excuse to talk, share news about family and friends, and most of all to laugh. Linda and I have lost a dear, dear friend. I can't imagine what Lauri, his children, and family are going through. I only know my heart is broken.
Jay Hull
July 23, 2016
Dr. Lehn always expected the best from his students. He always challenged me and my wife to do better, both in and out of class. He was a great professor and we are grateful to have met him and learned from him. Our deepest condolences and prayers to the family and loved ones. Jose & Deysy Santiago , Class of 2009
Jose & Deysy Santiago
July 23, 2016
I had the privilege of typing Dan's reports/projects esp during the summer months because I worked as the departmental secretary. Dan was so much fun to work with. He made me feel comfortable doing the special things that he needed to be done in his reports/projects. He was funny, a gentleman, a very kind person, and a joy to work with. I was so shocked when I read about Dan's bicycle accident and death. I offer my condolences to his wife, Lauri, and his family. His light in the world went out way too soon. But we do have him in Heaven looking down upon us sharing his heavenly wisdom now. Prayers and Sympathy, Mary Dias, Retired Hickok Hall Secretary 2001- 2009.
Mary Dias
July 22, 2016
I had the privilege of typing Dan's reports/projects esp during the summer months because I worked as the departmental secretary. Dan was so much fun to work with. He made me feel comfortable doing the special things that he needed to be done in his reports/projects. He was funny, a gentleman, a very kind person, and a joy to work with. I was so shocked when I read about Dan's bicycle accident and death. I offer my condolences to his wife, Lauri, and his family. His light in the world went out way too soon. But we do have him in Heaven looking down upon us sharing his heavenly wisdom now. Prayers and Sympathy, Mary Dias, Retired Hickok Hall Secretary 2001- 2009.
Mary Dias
July 22, 2016
During my time at Coe, I had the privilege of having Dan as both my Personality and Advanced Experiential Psychology professor. He was one of few people I allowed to call me "Linds." He was always smiling and joking (with incredibly quick wit). He taught with such passion and he cared deeply about his students. He always knew when I was having a rough time and how to make me laugh. In my personality class, there were 5 of us, and he let us be in charge of the class. One day, we assigned personality disorders to everyone and he even participated himself. He also humored me by reading up on every link I sent him about Harry Potter and personality since he knew nothing of Harry Potter- he even let me write my final paper on Lord Voldemort. When Nukhet was on sabbatical, he stepped in as my advisor and was one of the first professors to push me into the field of measurement and stats, in which I am now pursuing my PhD. His door was always open, ready to joke, chat, or just let his students is there for comfort for whatever the reason. He was a challenging professor who pushed us all to do our best. I would not be where I am today without Dan's mentorship, teaching, and above all else, his kindness and belief in me. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you, your family, friends, the whole Coe community, and all those who had the honor of knowing Dan. Sincerely, Lindsey Schmidt, Class of 2014
Lindsey Schmidt
July 22, 2016
Dan was a wonderful colleague, a pleasure to be around, and will be sorely missed at Coe College. Our condolences to his family.
Bill and Laura Carson
William Carson
July 22, 2016
50 days ago I was blessed to meet brother Dan. It only took a precious few evening hours spent in his company to realize what a wonderful and genuinely caring human being he was...you could hear it in his voice and see it in his eyes and smile. I will forever treasure closely in my heart the time you spent breaking bread, drinking wine, sharing stories of baby Lehn with me. In addition, providing comical relief and laughter at dinner with the teenagers! It was refreshing to have the company of a fish eater who I could cook quinoa for!! You are a legend of many things as attested by the many tributes, including but not limited to the infamous birthday cards, which always created a record breaking grin for Noah and Jacob, and in turn a highlight for their father and I. I really knew you were truly special when 15 days later my youngest daughter received her very first birthday card, and not just any birthday card. But, true to "Uncle Dan" form, a humorous little message fitting for a 16-year-old looking forward to the freedoms of being able to drive! It saddens me greatly to know it was her first and last... Knowing this, she has safely tucked it away, but close at hand. If only we all could emulate his passion for life! And even more importantly his passion for others!!! IF ONLY we could have just one more day...
Ronda Farnham
July 22, 2016
I was blessed to have Mr. Lehn as a math teacher during his brief stint teaching High School math at Paul VI in Northern Virginia. He was my favorite teacher and made every class fun. His passing is truly sad. My prayers are with his family.
Margaret Hayden Graf
July 22, 2016
Dr. Lehn made psychology fun. His had an entertaining and engaging teaching style, and was one of the biggest influences on my decision to become a mental health case manager. Many of the concepts I learned in his class I still use to this day, both at work and in my day-to-day interactions. I'll always remember the way he matched his pens to his shirt and tie every day with a smile.
Darci L Rodecap
July 22, 2016
In the dozen years since graduation it has been Dr Lehn's Social Psychology and Personality classes that I have drawn on the most out here in the real world. He was a dynamic and inspiring teacher. So sorry for the loss.
Andrea Olson
July 22, 2016
I was shocked and saddened to hear the news of Dr. Lehn's passing. I remember him as one of my favorite professors from my time at Coe College. He was always generous with his time and willingness to write letters of recommendation for me even years after I had left Coe. Upon my visits to campus as an alum, I always sought him out to catch up and talk baseball or just life in general. I learned quite a lot through taking his courses, and I truly believe that Coe has lost a very talented individual.
Paul Smiskol
July 22, 2016
My deepest condolences to the family of Dr. Dan Lehn. I can only imagine the countless stories you all have heard of the impact he made in the lives of many. Mine was one of them. I found myself in Dan's office by sheer luck, explaining that after a deployment, an additional year on military orders, and at that point I was five months pregnant, that I wanted to finish my degree. Dan cracked joke after joke as he helped me count up what I still needed to accomplish. The equivalent of 18 semester hours. I felt my heart sank as I looked at when finals would fall, two weeks after my due date. And Dan, being so adept at reading people, and the gift he had for saying the right thing in the right moment, encouraged me to take the challenge. To be fearless, to accomplish what I wanted. I graduated after that semester, five days after my daughter was born. A year or so later, Dan bee lined through a congested farmers market as he spotted us through the commotion and was able to meet my daughter. I will forever be grateful for the time Dan took to encourage me on my path. My heart is heavy with grief for the loss this beautiful soul. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and all those who knew, loved, respected, and cherished this amazing man.
Joalene Grissel, Coe 2013 grad
July 22, 2016
Dear ones, I lost my own father suddenly so i can only imagine how difficult your loss is i am so sorry you are experiencing this pain. May the Lord comfort and strengthen you.
Sandra Pacha
July 22, 2016
Dear Lauri, My heart goes out to you and and your family. May you find some measures of peace and comfort, even amidst the sorrow and horror of your loss. Bruce and I are thinking of you and send you our sympathy.
Bonnie Williams
July 21, 2016
My thoughts and prayers go out to his loved ones, which were many, upon his passing. Dr. Lehn, who I often called DAL in our email correspondences based on his initials, was one of the most kind, warm-hearted, and caring individuals I've had the privilege of knowing. He was more than a professor; He was a friend and role-model. I was lucky enough to take all the courses he taught while I was a student at Coe. One of my most fond memories was taking his "History and Issues" psychology course and realizing that there was someone who was as much of a proud nerd as I was. He will be sadly missed. Daniel was a one-of-a-kind individual who will be cherished by anyone lucky enough to have met him.
Mark Pahlas
July 21, 2016
My thoughts and prayers go out to his loved ones, which were many, upon his passing. Dr. Lehn, who I often called DAL in our email correspondences based on his initials, was one of the most kind, warm-hearted, and caring individuals I've had the privilege of knowing. He was more than a professor; He was a friend and role-model. I was lucky enough to take all the courses he taught while I was a student at Coe. One of my most fond memories was taking his "History and Issues" psychology course and realizing that there was someone who was as much of a proud nerd as I was. He will be sadly missed. Daniel was a one-of-a-kind individual who will be cherished by anyone lucky enough to have met him.
Mark Pahlas
July 21, 2016
My heart is still in shock as I think about the loss of this amazing person. He was truly an amazing professor and mentor to me during my time at Coe. He was always full of quick wit and you could always count on having a good laugh while he was around. I send my condolences to his family as well as all of those individuals he impacted during his time with us.
KayLA Orr
July 21, 2016
Growing up in Texas; Coe was quite the change. The people and faculty made it an experience that is both unforgettable and truly life changing. Coe is a family. Dr Lehn was one of my favorite professors at Coe and I can proudly say I was inspired by his energy and passion for teaching and his students. Devastated to hear of his passing. His smile is one I will never forget.
Saying a prayer for both his friends and family.
Benjamin Gauly
July 21, 2016
My heart broke when I heard the news! Dr. Lehn was an amazingly awesome person! He always projected positivity! I would even call him for questions and advice, his door was always open. He will truly be missed. Love and peace to his friends and family.
Terina
July 21, 2016
Truly an amazing professor! His teachings have influenced and impacted thousands of lives! Much of my love and continued work as a clinical psychologist can be linked back to my start at Coe and the entertaining classes taught by Dan! Condolences to his immediate family and the Coe community.
Becky (Sheffield) Gathje
July 21, 2016
Dan was one of my favorite Psychology professors at Coe and I am devastated to hear of his passing. My heart goes out to his whole family. I like to think that part of him will live on in all the lives he has changed for the better.
Rachel Baker
July 21, 2016
Lauri and family: I did not work with Dan when I was teaching at Coe, but we occasionally talked about cycling, and I was always struck by what a warm and kind man Dan was. He was truly special.
Kerrie Elliott Miller
July 21, 2016
Jake, prayers for you and your family.
Cheryl Caspers
July 21, 2016
Lauri and family, Rick and I are so sorry for your loss of Dan. We have memories of when you and Dan lived in Tipton. Dan was always so nice and it was obvious that you both loved one another so much. Hold your memories close, he will be with you always.. Kathy and Rick Sparrow
Rick and Kathy Sparrow
July 21, 2016
No one should have to experience the loss of a loved one, and for this to happen is truly devastating. Please take comfort in these promises from the Bible. Jehovah God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. Revelation 21:4; Psalms 34:18. Peace be upon you.
Michelle E.
July 21, 2016
Lauri,
As I read about the accident in the news on Tuesday, my heart sank as I came to the realization that Dan was your husband. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers all week. I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care.
Karen Haslett
July 21, 2016
I worked with Dan as one of the 13 original faculty members at Paul VI in Fairfax, VA. He was so much fun and very caring. Please except my sincere sympathy and prayers for your loss. I am sure Dan is making them laugh in heaven.
Carol Raphael
July 21, 2016
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your father. May you find some comfort in knowing that he is at peace.
Deb Scott-Miller
July 21, 2016
My heart goes out to Dan's family, friends, and the entire Coe community. I'll always remember Dan's sense of humor, healthy diet, and his smile when he talked about his family. I am thankful to have had him as a professor, advisor, and friend.
Shara Stough
July 21, 2016
Sending prayers for strength to the Lehn family & Coe community. Professor Lehn was such a great person to be around. His support of the women's basketball team, athletics, and involvement on campus was impactful to say the least. His personality, humor, and investment to everyone on campus will greatly be missed. I am so thankful the opportunities I got to work with him throughout my time at Coe.
Randi Henderson
July 21, 2016
My thoughts and prayers with the Lehn family and the Coe Community. His wit and humor made learning fun. He was one of my favorite psychology professors. His personality definitely impacted many of his students.
Lana Sellner
July 21, 2016
My limited/brief memories of Dan are too varied and numerous to mention without being able to convey their heft. That's how he was. Whether a semester, a college career, a lifetime (?) he impacted people in a way that carries others forward and I'm thankful for that.
Matthew T Goff
July 21, 2016
I will always remember Dan fondly. As I walked from Peterson Hall to teach in Stuart, I would see Dan, and he always showed a beautiful grace...a kind of hospitality in his way of living and sharing. So many will miss this man.
July 20
Phyllis Ruppert
Phyllis Ruppert
July 20, 2016
I wish Dr. Lehn's family and Coe family my sincerest condolences. Dr. Lehn was one of my favorite professors whom I did a semester of psychology research with. I will always remember his humor, his jokes about himself, and his love for the sitcom "Taxi" (we used a clip in our research.) I am so grateful to have been educated and challenged by such a caring, influential person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Renee Hackett Greenlee
July 20, 2016
Dan was very welcoming to me as I joined the Coe Psychology department this year. His energy and enthusiasm were boundless, as was his love for his family, especially his grandbaby! I will miss his quick smile and even quicker sense of humor. May your memories of him bring comfort to you.
Marty Keyes Gieryng
July 20, 2016
Dan was a wonderful professor, and he will be greatly missed. I'd like to thank his family for sharing him with all of us students at Coe College. He was a wonderful educator, and he will be truly missed by students, faculty, and Alumni alike!
Laura Bryant
July 20, 2016