Patricia L "Cookie" Hughes
Bob and family, I remember fondly Cookie and send you my heartfelt sympathy on your loss. You were good neighbors when we lived on Terrace Hill. May GOD BLESS YOU in this time of grief. W.D. Schwitzer
bill schwitzer
minnetonka
MN
Dear Sheila, Lynn and family, Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. May each special memory shine in your heart. With Sincere Sympathy & Friendship, Colleen & Jerry
Colleen Udelhofen
Robins
IA
Dear Sheila, Lynn and family, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. May you find the strength to help you through this difficult time. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Scott and Lisa Langerman
Lisa Langerman
Cedar Rapids
IA
Dear Bob, Jackie & Sheila, What great memories and love we have of Cookie and what love we have for all of you guys. Cookie was such a wonderful wife, mother and friend. She will certainly be missed by all who knew and loved her. May God grant His love and grace during this difficult time. Sorry we cannot be there, but our prayers are with you guys. Love Pat and Stephanie Psalm 23
Pat & Stephanie Healy
Lexington
SC
Uncle Bob, Jackie and Sheila, and Family, Please know our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you at this difficult time. We loved so many things about Aunt Cookie, but most of all her wonderful positive attitude. We will miss her always. All our love, Scott, Terri and Luke
Terri Nicol
Solon
IA
Our family is so sorry for your loss. We loved Cookie!! She was always fun and cheerful. So many wonderful memories with your mom and your family. With deepest sympathy. Nancy Morris Mowry
Nancy Mowry
IA
I'm so sorry about the loss of your Wife and Mother. She was an amazing woman and I was blessed to have known her. She will be missed greatly by all. She touched many many lives. Blessings to your entire family during this very difficult time. May you experience God's amazing grace throughout this journey.
danette brooks
cedar rapids
IA
To Cookie's Family: You will not recognize our names, but we have known Cookie since Dec. 31,1962. That was the day our son Peter was born and we shared a room at St. Luke's Hospital with Cookie and I believe Sheila. Cookie and I became friends and although we did not see each other often, we always shared memories of our days in the hospital. Peter died at the age of 6 years and 8 months of leukemia. Cookie never forgot him when we would see each other. She was a very thoughtful person and I could not have asked for a better roommate. I want to send our sincere condolences to your family. I know she will be missed in several circles and I will miss seeing her from time to time at our chance meetings. May God hold you close and may your good memories comfort you in the days to come. Sincerely, Joyce Hutchins
Joyce & Harold Hutchins
Marion
IA
I am so sorry for your loss. I will treasure my memories of Cookie on many quilting retreats! When I saw her at church, I was excited that she made her home New Covenant. Then, we had two things in common. She was ALWAYS so kind, thoughtful and happy. She will be deeply missed, but never forgotten!
Jennifer Smith
North Liberty
IA
Dear Sheila & family, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult times. If you need anything, just let us know. With love & prayers - Kat, Shawn & Brady Walsh
Kat Walsh
Cedar Rapids
IA
Dear Uncle Bob, Jackie, Sheila and Family, We were deeply saddened by the news of Aunt Cookie's acute illness and of her passing. She always put others first and remembered every birthday, holiday and special event with a card and best wishes. Her quilting talents were simply amazing and her genuine warmth toward all of us was truly felt. We will always hold our memories of Aunt Cookie in our hearts and we will all miss her very much. With our Love, Mike, Kathy, Eric, Scot and Marc Stodola
Mike Stodola
Johnston
IA
Dear Bob, Jackie, and Sheila, I am truly sorry to hear about Cookie's passing. She was a wonderful friend and my Iowa Mom. She brought the best out of me and my daughter and I am glad I had the chance to know and love her. She will be truly missed. There are no words that can possibly comfort you, or lessen your sorrow. Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts are with you and your family. Love Tosin
Tosin
El Dorado Hills
CA
Sheila, My prayers, my thoughts, my tears, my heart, go out to you during this difficult time. I know how special your relationship was with your mother. Everytime you spoke of her, I saw it in your eyes and oh how you look so much like Cookie. Please know that I'm here for you. I send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Much love.
Luanne Miller
Ely
IA
From eleven years old we were best 'buds'. The tears only clarify the happy times we had together growing up in Chesterfield County, Va. together. We rode bikes, skated, and then 'cruised' together, laughing our way through good and bad times. And then that wonderful guy, Bob, came along. The last time Bob and Cookie visited us, we put on fifties music and 'shagged' in the living room. I miss her smile, her voice, her love of life. But she's just moved on and will wait on us. Don and I send our love to Bob and family as well as our thanks to them for sharing their wife and mother with us all these years. Sandy and Don Hatfield Oolitic, Indiana
Sandy and Don Hatfield
IN
Dear Don and Family, Don I only met you at our class reunions, but it was obvious that the Lord had you planned for Cookie. Her happy joyful personality was reflected in you. When I think of Cookie, I think of "Mr. Peanut", that was one of her jobs during high school. You were always happy when you were around Cookie because she was always laughing and smiling. Oh that all could have her outlook on life. We have been separated by miles for many years, but when we were together, it was as if we were teens, still in high school. She will be greatly missed.
Betty Arnold Johnsen
Boynton Beach
FL
To Cookies family, Cookie was a delightful lady. She was very dear to me and I am praying that the Lord will comfort you. I know that Cookie was a woman who had great faith and she brought joy into the lives of her friends. I remember how patient she was in teaching me how to do binding so the corners looked nice! She always made people feel cherished. I have a purple wall hanging in my sewing room that Cookie made especially for me when she was my "secret sister" at a quilting retreat. I was blessed to know her and count her as my friend. Melanie Hermanson
Melanie Hermanson
Marion
IA
Dear Bob, Jackie and Shiela, What wonderful memories we share of the Oakland Rd Days. I saw Cookie at the beginning of the day when she dropped you girls off and at the end. Always she was smiling and uplifting. We loved chit chatting over our chance meetings at garage sales and Younkers. I will miss her so much as I know you will too. I do thank God for her beautiful disposition and the way she cared for all of us. Elaine Fox
Elaine Fox
Cedar Rapids
IA
Hello Again....School Teacher has to correct Sheila's name--I noticed it is misspelled...Sorry. Elaine
Elaine Fox
Cedar Rapids
IA
Mary Wauer
Cedar Rapids
IA
Dear Sheila and family, My heartfelt sympathy to you at this difficult time. Cookie taught the first workshop I took at EIHQ (Boston Commons). She was so kind and helpful and was an inspiration to me and I know to many others. She will be missed by all whose lives she touched.
Mary Wauer
Cedar Rapids
IA
Bob and Family, Cookie will be missed by all who knew her. The memory of her as "Mr. Peanut " at the Planters Store always brings a smile to my face.
Ruffin Apperson
Napa
CA
Dearest Bob, Sheila, & Jackie, Words cannot express how sad we are to hear about Cookie. Our hearts break for you all. We all loved Cookie-- to know her was to love her. She was the life of every party. She had this wonderful gift that made everyone laugh & smile. Her smile was contagious!:>) She was a joy & pleasure to be around. As you know, I have known & loved Cookie ever since the 8th. grade, (54 years). Even tho' we were separated by miles, we still maintained our strong friendship. Even when we lived in FL., Cookie & Bob would come to see us each year. I know with the Lord's help, you all fought cancer since 1981, but Cookie never complained. Cookie was a fine example of Christian woman. I'm sure her rewards will be many in Heaven. We shall recognize her by the many stars in her crown. My entire family loved and appreciated Cookie so much. She will be sorely missed by all. Precious Sheila & Jackie, We can sincerely sympathize with you, as it wasn't too long ago that my dear Mom went home to be with the Lord. It is a deep, unexplainable pain, but thank the Lord, with lots of prayer & time, it does get better. You all are and will continue to be in all of our prayers. Please, let us know if there is anything we can do to help you all in any way. We are here for you. We thank the Lord that we had the opportunity to know Cookie and are even more blessed to have had her all of these years as our friend. We thank & praise the Lord, that Cookie was a child of the King and is in Heaven having a wonderful time. We also thank the Lord for that eternal gift and promise that belivers will live forever in Heaven with HIM. "We shall be known as we are known." We shall see & be with Cookie again. Until then, we will cherish all of our fond memories. May the Lord bless & keep you all in HIS care and grant you HIS peace & comfort. With much love, prayers, & sympathy, Lucy, Martin, Sharon, & Rache
Lucy Sale Horenstein
Richmond
VA
To Cookie's Family: I went through Thomas Dale with Cookie. What a joy to know. Oh, those dimples. I always wanted dimples. When she laughed, her whole face would light up. What is so nice to know is that she is with Jesus. Absent from the body present with the Lord. I know He will supply your need at this time. May God Bless You. Virginia and Donnie Vaughan
Virginia Powell Vaughan
VA
I WENT TO SCHOOL WITH COOKIE. IT IS GOOD TO KNOW SHE IS WITH THE LORD.WE WILL REMEMBER YOU IN PRAYER. LOVE IN CHRIST, PATRICIA(CULLOM) AND BRAXTON BAKER
PATRICIA (PATTY,)CULLOM BAKER
COLONIAL HEIGHTS
VA
Jackie, Sheila and Mr. Hughes, May memories comfort you in your time of sorrow. May God bless you today and always. Katherine G. F. Smith
Katherine G. F. Smith
Cedar Rapids
IA
Bob,Jackie & Sheila, We want to express our deepest sympthy at Cookie's passing. I felt like someone had kicked me in the stomach when Phyllis called to tell us. Cookie and I were like sisters. Our families were the most important people to us, but the Lord was and is first place in our life. I considered it a previlige to call her my friend. Bob, you were a wonderful husband to her and it makes me love you that much more. Jackie and Sheila, you were the apple of Cookie's eye. She spoke sooo often about the wonderful accomplishments you all were doing. Cookie told me about two months before Jackie's transplant that she wanted to live long enough to see Jackie get a new kidney so she could help take care of her the way Jackie helped take care of her when she got her kidney. Later on Cookie said she wanted to live long enough to see Jackie marry the man that loved her so much and helped to take care of her. She got her two wishes. Cookie could never think of enough good words to describe what a wonderful man Bob is and what a great NURSE he was. Sheila, she spoke so often of how you were always there to get her out and just have a Mom Day. She appreciated and loved you so much for those days. I will alway love you guys. Love, Jerry & Kay McDaniel, Chester, VA
Kay & Jerry McDaniel
Chester
VA
Bob, Jackie and Shelia Our sincere sympathy to you. Cookie and I have been best friends since elementary school (Bellwood School) Cookie would walk to my home and spend the night and then I would go to her house the next night. We were the best of friends for so many years. I have so many wonderful memories of our childhood that I could not possibly put them in words. My family loved Cookie and Donald and Linda as if they were a part of our family. Cookie's Mom probably thought that I was a part of her family because I was there most of the time. When I would go to Cookies house she would cook a big old iron frying pan full of fried potatoes and we would all four eat until we couldn't eat any more. Cookie's Mom worked most of the time and Cookie was like a mother to Donald and Linda. I could go on for ever about the wonderful person that Cookie was. Every time that I talked to Cookie she would ask about my daughter Teresa. Cookie always said that Teresa was the most courageous person in the world and I would tell her that the only person more courageous than Teresa was Cookie. I loved her dearly and will sorely miss her. Bob, anytime you would like to come to Chester and talk about your wonderful wife, you are always welcome. Walter and I loved you both.
Walter and Faye Chalkley
Chester
VA
I enjoyed working with Pat at Defense Contracts a number of years ago. She was a wonderful lady and friend. She always made me laugh and could bring everyone's spirts up. I remember how excited she got when she got to ride in a semi truck. It was something she said she always wanted to do. My condolences to you and your families. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jeri Ann Gardner (Marx)
Council Bluffs
IA
I am so sorry for your loss. Sheleigh and I loved Cookie!! She was always fun and always cheerful. We have so many wonderful memories with your mom. She will be greatly missed. Shelly(Meyer) and Sheleigh Hull
shelly Hull
cedar rapids
IA
How we treasure our friendship with Cookie, how blessed we are to have memories with her. We share in your grief and pray for God's grace.with love,
Pat & Red Leeper
McAlester
OK
Sheila & family, We are so sorry to hear about Cookie. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. She will be greatly missed at our semi-annual meetings. We were so fortunate to come to know her. Our daughter Kristin (who now lives in Arizona) remembers her and even said a prayer last night.
Jim & Carolyn Ernst
Cedar Rapids
IA
Dear Bob, Jackie & Sheila, Shaun and I are very saddened by the news of Pat's passing. We fondly remember her as a great co-worker at DCMA Cedar Rapids and also as an exceptional friend for many years. Pat was so full of life, laughter and happiness. There was never a dull moment being in her company. Please accept our condolences and prayers. May you find comfort in your loved ones during this time of sorrow.
Rosalind Lanham
Savage
MN
My mom, MaryLou Ellis and I wish to express our sadness with the loss of Cookie. She ALWAYS had a nice smile and positive attitude when we used to run into her at "sales". (We don't go "saleing" as it is difficult for my mom to get around since her strokes.) Yesterday I was working at moving out of our former church, Kenwood Park Presbyterian and a lady from New Covenant said she knew your mom and what a wonderful woman your mom was. She reminded me that your mom is now at peace. Rest assured that you will be reunited with your wonderful mom again, Forever, in Eternity!
Judy Worley
Cedar Rapids
IA
Shiela I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. She was such a wonderful lady and did such beautiful minature quilting. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. May God be with you in your time of healing. Her memories will be treasured forever. Sincerely, Marcy Sedlacek EIHQ Guild Member
Marcy Sedlacek
Cedar Rapids
IA
Dear Bob and family, We were so surprised to read that Cookie went on to Heaven. We have wonderful memories that we will always cherish. Many years ago, when we were all together at Ellis Park Chuch of God, Cookie made a beautiful spring coat and dress for our daughter, Mary. for Easter. We took lots of pictures. Years passed and we haven't seen each other very often but we always enjoyed brief visits when we would happen to meet. May God be especially near during this difficult time, giving you comfort and strength. With our sincere sympathy, love and prayers, Sharyl and Ken
Ken and Sharyl Achilles
Cedar Rapids
IA
I know I will be one of the many who will miss hearing Cookie's soft voice at EIHQ. What a delightful lady, always kind and thoughtful! You girls were blessed to have such a loving Mother. Sheila, I am the one whose daughter goes to Rosemont on the bus. My sympathy goes out to you at this time and with God's help in your lives you will get through this. Friends help so much, too! Onalee Arnold
Onalee Arnold
Marion
IA
Although I did not know Cookie well, I just felt compelled to write a you note. Many years ago I met Cookie through EIHQ. I do not belong to this organization any longer, but my memories of her are very strong. She was a delightful person with a wonderful laugh and sweet smile. I always felt welcomed and included by her. She was a gem and I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
cindy fagan
cedar rapids
IA
Dear Bob, Jackie, & Sheila, Cookie was such a kind and generous person and you know how much she loved all of you and you gave it right back to her. I was pleased to be her friend and enjoyed the times we spent together and her quilting skills were top notch and her awards many. God has kept her close and I ask that you feel Him holding you extra close for awhile. Love, Carol Cranston Elkhorn, NE
Carol Cranston
Elk Horn
NE
Cookie is one of the most positive people I know. She always had nothing but the kindest words for anyone. I always enjoyed the quilting moments that I have shared with her and her daughters. She will be missed by her family and her many friends. I am blessed to have know such a special lady. Rita Scott
Rita Scott
IA
I was so sad to read about Cookie's passing, so thankful to have known her through the quilt guild. Sheila and Cookie were the best roommates at quilt retreats. Always smiling, always friendly and helpful. Cookie shared her quilting knowledge with so many, I was blessed to be in that group. You are all in my prayers tonight. Glenda Dixon, EIHQ Member
Glenda Dixon
Cedar Rapids
IA
Bob, Sheila, Jackie and family, How much we all gained in knowing Cookie. In seeing her gracious, sparkling personality at work warming those around her. There was never a scrap of fabric or person so small that Cookie didn't see the potential in them and take them to her heart. She was a delight and we are all richer for having known her. God bless each of you.
Muriel Owen
Cedar Rapids
IA
Jackie, I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom. Some of her recipes are my very favorite. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Willie Dell Derryberry
Willie D.Derryberry
Mcalester
OK
Dear Family, please know that Cookie was a treasure to know. I didn't know her well, but found her very willing to share her quilting knowlege and ideas. She was always so uplifting and cheerful during our few times together. I remember the first time; we were scribes for the quilt show judge. I was such a novice and she helped me through it with much patience. It was a pleasure to know her. I pray you will find comfort in your memories as you grieve her loss.
Linda Knowles
McAlester
OK
Dear Bob and family, My sincerest sympathy to all of you during this sad time. I was fortunate to know Pat while working with Defense Contracts in Cedar Rapids during the late 1970's and early 1980's. She was a joy to know and fun to be around! I loved her "southern" drawl and will think of her always on August 11th, as we shared the same birthday. Also, Donna Weber and I enjoyed her quilt entry at the National Quilt Show in Paducah, KY a few years ago. My prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless.