Rebecca Darland
My heart goes out to you both. But God is in control. May Becki be resting in peace with her parents and friends that have gone on before. She will also be waiting for you.
Kay DeBurkarte
Hiawatha
IA
Dinah, I am so sorry for the loss of your sister. May God comfort you and your family during this time of sorrow.
Becky Hatton Bush
Donalsonville
GA
Tim and Jessica, Becki was a wonderful wife, mother and friend. She always had a bright smile on her beautiful face. She will be missed very much. from Peter, Sandy, Ashleigh and Isabella
Olander Family
Marion
IA
Though I am out of town presently, my deepest sympathy goes out to the Darland family on this huge loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with your entire family through these most difficult times. Randy Krejci @ Harding Middle School
Randy Krejci
Cedar Rapids
IA
My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who called Becky a friend, sister, wife and mother. I always remember her as the cousin with the "prettiest smile". She was a very sweet and genuine person and I know she will be terribly missed.
Jennifer Waldrop Lovitt
Madison
MS
Becki was a very special friend to us. With her cheerful outlook, positive words and southern hospitality, she found her way into our hears since she moved to Iowa. She will continue to be in our hearts and memories until we are reunited in heaven some glorious day. "With every friend I love who has been taken into the brown bosom of the earth a part of me has been buried there; but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world."~H. Keller Tim & Jess, we love you. ~Kathy, Bruce, Mark, Lindley & Brooke
Kathleen Visser
Atkins
IA
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family of Becki. Our family had the pleasure of meeting Becki's family in the waiting room in the intensive care unit at St. Lukes, as difficult as the times were the family always took time to offer food or kind words. If one good thing comes out of these tragic times, you get the chance to meet some wonderful people. In our thoughts now and always, Your friends from Anamosa, The Kurtz's (Janice, Julie, Susie and Rich)
janice kurtz
anamosa
IA
Tim and Jessica, Our thoughts & prayers are with you in this time of loss. May God keep you in His arms and provide the hope & strength to endure in the loving memory of Becki. Steve, Gaylen, Ida, Dara, Victor, and Jerry
Verizon Portland Team
Portland
OR
Dear Tim, Jessica and the Darland family, I am so sorry for your loss. Becki was such a wonderful person and someone I always looked forward to spending time with. She will be missed greatly, but now Heaven has another angel and you know she is going to make certain you both are alright until you see each other again.
Diane Bagley Wilson
Wheaton
IL
Tim and Jessica, All of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeanne, Mckenzie and Kaela
Cedar Rapids
IA
We are so sorry to hear that Becki has gone on to be with Jesus. We are praying for you guys. Chris & Genell Cherryholmes
Chris & Genell Cherryholmes
Oro Valley
AZ
Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. We pray you will find peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Trevor and Keri Cook
Cedar Rapids
IA
Christy Harvey " Dwayne Ward's daughter "
Foxworth
MS
Darland family we are so far apart but are heart go out to you at this time. we will be praying for you and your daughter and all the family and friends that becky ever touch with her heart we know she touch alot of hearts GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Marcy (Kirin) John
aliquippa
PA
Tim,Jessica, and Family, We were thankful for having the wonderful oportunity of getting to know Becki during Upward Soccer 2008. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times and the days ahead. May God Bless you all.
Esther, Kaile McCandless
Cedar Rapids
IA
Tim and Family, I can't tell you how sad your "extended family" at Verizon feel for your terrible loss. We hope that you know we are here if you need ANYTHING at all, and our thoughts and prayers are with you in the days ahead. With utmost sympathy, Wayne ("Buzz") Harrah
Wayne "Buzz" Harrah
Hiawatha
IA
I will always remember Becki first by her sweet dispostion and her friendly smile always.It was so good to have seen her last year. My thoughts and prayers are with you as I know she will be dearly missed. God Bless, Tim
Tim Waldrop
Cleveland
TN
Jess, Tim and family, Our emotions are feelings of sadness and grief as we heard of the sudden death of your Mom and wife, Becki. We grieve in support of your family and hope all of our thoughts and prayers can somehow lessen the burden of this tragic loss. There may not be a tougher thing to experience in this life but God-willing, your family may celebrate the happiness and joy that Becki brought into the lives of those she touched! God Bless you, Take care and call on us for anything we can do. Your friends - The Ballinger Family
Ally, Peggy and Stu Ballinger
Cedar Rapids
IA
Tim and Jessica~you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your entire family! Amy and Madison Muller, Darrell and Lexi Simmons
Amy Muller
Cedar Rapids
IA
Tim & Jessica, We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Brian and Katherine Runels
Cedar Rapids
IA
Tim and Jessica, You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God sustain and comfort you through this time. When Becki had to call Bryce about Bible Quizzing, he always knew it was her by her southern accent. I always thought of her as a "southern belle" -- so pretty and proper, kind and gentle, sweet smile and sparkling eyes. She will be greatly missed by all who had the privilege to have known her. Our loss, Heaven's gain! Ted, Karen, Brianna, & Bryce Kirby
Ted & Karen Kirby
Marion
IA
Just viewing Becki's video again this morning. Life is so short! The service and the video were so sweet. I am so thankful we were able to be there to remember Becki. She was loved by so many people with her sweet, sweet disposition. Tim and Jessica, you are in our thoughts and in our prayers every day. Love you both.
Lisa Kelley
Nashville
TN
Tim, Jessica, Dinah and Jenni - our hearts ache for you. We have loved the Lee and Darland families for years. Our Heavenly Father loves you, and will be your Comfort. John & Jini Friend
John & Jini Friend
Plano
TX
Tim and Jessica,We love you very much and will be praying for you both in the days to come.I feel so blessed to have had Becki as a cousin. Her sweet smile and voice will be carried in my heart forever-She was such a special person and we will miss her visits to Mississippi so much.Love you always, LaDonna
LaDonna Fuller
Monticello
MS
To all of Becki's friends and family I want to thank you for your precious kind words, prayers and support during this most difficult time in my life. Becki was truly loved by so many and I always considered it a privilege to be around her loving family and friends. I will miss Becki more than words can every express. I hope that y'all stay in touch with Jessica an I, as we find strength in you, knowing that somehow a small part of Becki lives in each of you. Tim
Tim Darland
cedar rapids
IA
Tim & Jessica, Our heart aches for you and the thought of not having our vists with Becki hear in Ms, she realy enjoyed life. Mike and I will miss her greatly. Becki truly loved her family.Becki was one of the most loveing people I know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. I am so glad I was able to be at the service it was beauitful. I know Becki would be pleased. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Thinking of you everyday. Love!! Mike & Cindy Mccloud
Cindi McCloud
Brookhaven
MS
Tim, Jessica, Lee and Darland families. One week ago today, Feb 8 the strong arms of our heavenly Father embraced Becki with a tender "Welcome Home." The same arms of Jesus also reach out to embrace us with His comfort, His love, His peace and His grace. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Dinah and Fred
Fred and Dinah Huff
Tijeras
NM
Tim & Jessica, It was truly wonderful being Becki's cousin. I enjoyed all the times I got to spend with her. She will always be in our hearts. Our prayers are with you. We loved Becki very much. She will be greatly missed. Love always, Tammy
Tammy Ward
Foxworth
MS
Tim and Family, Our thoughts and prays are with your family. May God bring you interpeace during this time.
Gayle (Miller) Lowe & Family
Woodstock
GA
Tim, Jessica & Family, I will forever love, cherish & respect my Aunt Becki. She was an amazing person. She never acted sad or complained. You were always loving, trustworthy & a strong Christian. I will never forget are trips together. My Aunt was someone you could always rely on. Those people are very hard to find. Everytime I see Elvis, a care bear or smell I pine tree I will think of you. I will never forget you & I can't wait to see your beautful face when I get to heaven. God Bless!
Allen Knippers
Yukon
OK
Becki - it has been 6 months today since you went to heaven. I miss you so much and long to see your smile, touch your face and kiss your lips. I think of you every moment of the day, and I miss you more with each day that passes. Our wonderful daughter Jessica is so strong and brave but I know she misses you so much. She reminds me of you in so many ways and is so sweet like you. I dont understand life at all, or death either. It makes no sense to me how someone as loving, kind and wonderful can be taken from this earth. I know it is true that only the good die young. Sometimes I think I hear your voice or cant wait to tell you something, but then realize that I will never hear or speak to you again in this world, and it makes me so sad. I do not think that time heals, at least not so far, it only makes the days longer, the nights endless, and the sadness greater. I do not think anyone knows how much I love you, or how much you are part of me. I have loved you since I was 18 years old, and that love will never go away. We would have been married 30 years this year and I thought we agreed to grow old together, spend time with Jessica, and have a place in the mountains together. Now I dont know what to do. I've never been an adult without you Becki. Half of me is missing and I am not whole without you. I have tried to be strong these past 6 months as Jessica needs me and I need to be the best father to her that I can be. But I can not be her mother and I am not good at the same things you are. You are tender, kind and loving. I need you. I miss you and I love you. Tim
Tim Darland
Cedar Rapids
IA
Aunt Beck I think about you daily. I miss you so much. I love you. You were always there for me(hugs, smile and gentleness). You always made me feel so loved. I miss you.