Moleigh, Rod & Sue and Family (and Maple) Cathy and I want extend our deepest sympathies for your loss of Nik. He was one very exceptional guy and a fun to be with. We had some good times with him especially family get togethers. We are stunned and will continue to be by the loss of such a personable nice guy. Words don't really help in this situation, but suffice to say you have our deepest condolences for your loss of Nik.

Chip & Cathy Kensinger
June 1, 2016

We are so sorry for your loss Sue and Rod. I know he was the light of your lives. Peace be with you. Nancy and Jeff Roland

Nancy and Jeff Roland
June 1, 2016

Rod and Sue I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. My heart is breaking for you and I will continue to remember him in my prayers. May God's peace be with you.

Renee Schreiber
June 1, 2016

Rod and Sue- My heartfelt sympathies to you on the loss of your son, Nik. This bright, young, gentleman will be missed by so many. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this tough time. Bruce

Bruce Eichacker
June 2, 2016

Sue, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Nik's passing. We remember him as a teen being so kind and thoughtful to Cade and Kelsey when we lived on Darrell Drive. He was always inviting them over to hang out with the pups. What an intelligent and handsome young man he had become. We are truly sorry for your loss. Kris, Lori, Conner, Cade and Kelsey Koberg

Lori and Kris Koberg
June 2, 2016

Rod and family: Our heartfelt sympathy in the loss of Nik. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this very difficult time. The heart remembers most what it has loved best. May memories comfort you and bring you peace.

Bernie and Deb Burmeister
June 2, 2016

Rod and family: Our heartfelt sympathy in the loss of Nik. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this very difficult time. The heart remembers most what it has loved best. May memories comfort you and bring you peace.

Bernie and Deb Burmeister
June 2, 2016

Moleigh, your dad called me this morning of the sad news of Nik passing away. I never met Nik, but seemed like I had, because of your dad telling me about him. My condolences to you during this difficult time. Love, Uncle Harry

Harry Bryant
June 2, 2016

Dear Rod & Sue, Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your precious son, Nik. I am so sad to learn he lost this battle. I hope you find peace in knowing that you were all blessed to have experienced such deep love and devotion in his twenty-three years. He was fortunate to have you both as his parents. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jill Schaefer Cross
June 2, 2016

Dearest Rod and Sue, I just heard the very sad news of Nik's passing from Connie..It brought back so many great memories of our short but joyous time shared with all of you on Bever Lane. Nik was such a joy and always was excited to play with our three boys. Surely your hearts are forever broken but may the memories of joy and laughter shared with Nik forever bring you peace and joy. Each of you had such wonderful gifts of bringing joy to others, may you now open your hearts and allow others to help you find peace with Nik's loss. May his everlasting love , smiles, laughter and joy bring you joy as you celebrate his life. Thinking of you with love, prayers and fondest of memories. Sincerely, Your old neighbors from Bever Lane The Formaneks Teri.Lori. Michael.Joseph and Matthew

Lori Formanek
June 2, 2016

Rod and Susan...I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your entire family during this difficult time. Prayers to you all!!

Libby Newman
June 2, 2016

Our sincere condolences on the deep loss of you son, Nik. Francis and Judy Lebeda

Francis Lebeda
June 2, 2016

Although I have not seen Nik for quite some time, I still see that same sweet and amazing smile he shared with us back in his preschool days at All Saints. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sheri Miller - All Saint Preschool
June 2, 2016

I am so sorry for your tragic loss. My thoughts are with you.

Rae Dvorsky
June 2, 2016

Rod and Susan.. Words cannot express how sorry we were to hear of Nik's passing. We did not know Nik but read of all his accomplishments. What a wonderful son you raised!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and his wife Moleigh. God Bless you all. Dan and Betsy Meloan

Dan and Betsy Meloan
June 2, 2016

Moleigh--I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. Your family talked so much about him when I saw them in the office and I loved seeing your wedding pictures when your mom was in. I just found out that my niece's husband knew Nik from the fraternity. He said he was a great guy. I pray that God will give you peace that surpasses all understanding.

Michelle Retter (hygienist at Dr. Michels)
June 2, 2016

Rod and family: My sympathy goes out to your entire family in the loss of your son.

Parnell Etteldorf
June 2, 2016

Rod: I am so sorry hear about your loss. I was so shocked and saddened when Rhonda called me last night, it sounds like he fought hard and yet had the joy of marring his love. My prayers will be with you in the days ahead. Take comfort in family and friends, remember the good times.

Cathy Mitchell
June 3, 2016

My dear friend Rod: There are no words to describe how saddened I was to see the news of your son's passing. Please know that I will be thinking of you and your entire family in the days to come and remembering you in my prayers. I'll be in Cedar Rapids the next 2 weeks for my brother's surgery, and if you can find the time I would love to have lunch with you. Please email me if there is anything I can do to help while I'm home. Debbie

Debbie Palmer Butenko
June 3, 2016

Sue & Rod: I can still hear the laughs when Nik and Joe were the best of buds in grade school. Nik was always a sweetheart under the watchful eye of two great parents. I was lucky enough to see him a few times at Hy Vee with Rod to see what a handsome, gracious young man he had turned in to. Always the little boy smile I remember so well. We were ALL lucky to have him in our lives. My prayers are with you, that you find comfort in the love of family and friends. I am so sorry for your tremendous loss.

Bonnie Toben
June 3, 2016

Nik was a student in my class at Xavier during his freshman year. Around Easter of the spring of 2008, I was visiting the Czech Museum when I ran into Nik and his Mom in the gift shop. It seems that Nik was looking for the perfect Easter Egg to add to his Dad's collection. Just a few weeks later flood waters filled the museum and I wondered if anyone would ever shop there again. My vivid memory of that day was that Nik wasn't embarrassed to be seen with his Mother while selecting a gift for his Father when he encountered his Geometry teacher. Every time I travel 16th avenue, my mind goes back to the former museum location and day the I ran into that High school student who wasn't worried about making a tough guy impression like so many others. But that just wasn't Nik's way. It is indeed fitting that memories of Nik will be shared in that same Museum. Just as the egg is a symbol of new life at Easter, the Czech Museum is a symbol of new life in the village. Nik has now moved on to his new everlasting life. He was a great kid and has touched many lives. For me he will always be the kid in the Museum gift shop studying the intricately decorated eggs. Thank you for sharing him with me and the Xavier community for four years. My sympathy in your loss. God bless you all. Barbara Glass

Barbara Glass
June 3, 2016

Dearest Sue, and family: I am so very sorry for your loss.

Kaye Lynn Arenz
June 3, 2016

Figuratively and literally, thank God for Nik! He filled the world with laughter, wit, intelligence, class and his care for others. We are the lucky ones to have enjoyed his presence and his love of family and friends. Always, remember the love!

Tom & Jane Saxen
June 3, 2016

Susan & family, I'm so very sorry for your loss!! Your in my thoughts and prayers! Sending love & condolences. Jackie (Leach) Doolin

Jackie Kidd Doolin
June 4, 2016

Rod and family, It was sad news to hear about the loss of Nik and the bright future for which he had prepared. I had not met him, but from his photo and his smile he resembles a young Rod, full of life and ambition. I extend my sympathy for your loss. Mike Rexroat

Mike Rexroat
June 4, 2016

Mrs. Jiruska and family, I am saddened to hear about the passing of Nick. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

Dr Donald Linder (St. Luke's Emergency Department)
June 5, 2016

Rod and family, words can NOT express my empathy for what you are going through right now,and dealing with after the death of Nik at the young age of 23. Please take comfort in knowing soo many people are,praying for you and thinking of you and willing to do anything to try to lighten the load even though the toughest part of that means,we can't bring Nik back. 1 thing I know he was soo smart and sweet and adventurous and didn't let this hold him down the last few years-,HE LIVED!!! Please also take comfort in knowing that his Godparents who love you SOO MUCH have lost their son and are going to be there 24/ 7 to help you get through this like you helped them. Nick and Susan are looking forward to your visit soon and until then you have a ton of support -,don't be afraid to reach out right here in CR! you are in our devotions, prayers, thoughts and ANYTHING we can do you know how to get ahold of me -,we are,just a,quick 2 mins away!!!! Love Taryn, Ben & Gavin O'Toole-Mohr

Taryn O'Toole-Mohr
June 5, 2016

Rod, Sue and Moleigh, No words can express the sympathy and anguish that so many are feeling right now at the death of dear, sweet Nik. The memorial service was beautiful and it was evident how many people's lives he touched by how many people were at the service. Nik was a joy to teach with an eternal smile and two wonderful, supportive parents. May you find peace and comfort through your many friends and relatives at this most difficult and tragic time in your lives.

Mary and Meggie Gates
June 22, 2016

Rod, I just now saw this and wanted to offer my sympathy for the loss of your son.

Debra Rexroat
April 24, 2017