Ann Marie Feld
Ann Marie, You were so much more then just a co-worker! Thank you for always being there for me and making me laugh! Just hearing you laugh always made me giggle. Thanks for the memories and being such a wonderful friend! I miss you so much! You were such a great listener and taught me so much. I can't thank you enough for being there for me anytime I needed to talk, vent or even cry! Love ya....Christina
Chistina
Ventura
CA
Oh Ann Marie, I am still hearing you infectious laughter in the halls. Thank you for making my mornings lively. I wish you peace and love and hope that there is both a Trader Joe's and Rite Aid waiting for you upon your arrival in heaven! You will always be my most favorite snack queen and party planning assistant. I hope you will watch out for all of us and help us to each and every day realize what we are here for and to appreciate each day for its brevity. Until we meet again... All my love, Candace
Candace
Santa Barbara
CA
My favorite memory of Ann Marie is that she had this amazing ability to fit in with any crowd -- any time. She was beautiful (inside and out) but never put on airs. Her authenticity, quick wit and willigness to laugh at herself will surely be missed.
Mary Boone
Tacoma
WA
I knew Ann Marie very well growing up and thought the world of her. I just got the sad news a few hours ago. I'm so very sorry she is gone from your lives at such a young age and so suddenly. I'm sure she was the same wonderful person in her 40's that she was in her teens. Ann Marie was just so beautiful and fun and I'll always remember the laughs we had together. I tried to find her just two weeks ago to reconnect, but couldn't find any information. I wish I'd tried harder. I am a special education teacher here in Oregon, so we would have had a lot to talk about. My family is in shock and disbelief over Ann Marie's passing. My brother John, took Ann Marie to prom one year and we both (along with the other 13 Frentress kids) went to St. Mary's and knew your kids really well. John and I talked a long time today about Ann Marie and had so many great things to share. She seems to have left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her. Our thoughts are with your family.
Jody Frentress Egan
Springfield
OR
My heart is breaking for all of you. I know how Ann Marie was such a huge part of your lives even though she was in California. I have so many memories of Ann Marie growing up. She was always the pretty, fun older sister that we all enjoyed getting attention from. I thought it was so great to get to know he again as an adult the few times she came back and all of the sisters in both our families went to dinner together. We had so much fun! All the memories we shared and lots of laughs will stick in my mind forever. Ann Marie was such a special person and will be missed. Please know my family is here for yours at this hard time and that we love you. Love, Kara
Kara Louk Felber
Cedar Rapids
IA
I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers during this difficult time.
Kerry (Kramer) Johnson
Decorah
IA
Felds, we are sharing in your sorrow and sending caring thoughts. Time will not take memories of Ann away. Those memories will always be with you. Joanne and Milt Kramer
Joanne Kramer
Manchester
IA
Dear Feld Family, I just found out a few minutes ago and am very shocked and sad. Please accept my sincere sympathy in this difficult time. I always remember her at St. Mary's School and on the Swim Team! What a wonderful Person! Fondly, Susan (McMahon) Hayes
Susan McMahon Hayes
Boulder
CO
I am writing to extend my deepest sympathies. I know how proud you were of your daughter and sister. She had an elegance about her with laughter that was contagious. And, I know that your bond has grown stronger over the adult years. Sisters are a gift, and Ann Marie certainly showed you this in how much she loved you, how much she enjoyed calling to check up, and how much she valued family from so far away. I know you will miss her laugh, assertiveness towards making you a better you, her ability to make you laugh and cry all in one phone call, and her ability to always love you for you. I had the honor of knowing Ann Marie as a babysitter, best friend’s sister, and someone I wished to grow up just like. She was beautiful and always took time for the little kids in the neighborhood. It was wonderful as an adult to meet back up with Ann Marie and relive our childhood. Although she always reminded me that she changed my diapers! Please know that my family and I are here for you. If there is anything I can do to help during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Kamber (Louk) Boeckmann
kamber Boeckmann
Cedar Rapids
IA
Our girls have shared what a wonderful impression your beautiful auburn daughter and sister had on our lives. Your family is our family, and we grieve with you. Love, Karen & Rick
karen Louk
Cedar Rapids
IA
Dear Family of Ann Marie, I am a client of TCRC and serve on its Board of Directors. I was shocked and deeply saddened to learn of her passing, and I only knew her for a bit. She was a gem, and I remarked on her accent upon meeting her. She promptly said it was we Californians who had the accents. I will always remember her quiet competency and her gentle and graceful spirit. She was always very helpful, and I never saw her with a tendril out of place, so it doesn't surprise me that she was a Homecoming Queen... we will miss her very much, but surely she is with the angels, and you shall see her again when the time comes. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of mourning. Blessings and Love, Justine Ann Blevins
Justine Ann Blevins
Goleta
CA
My deepest sympathies to the family. I will always cherish my phone conversations with Ann Marie over the last few years. Her and I somehow managed to always keep in touch with each other and I always enjoyed talking to her. She thought the world of her parents - always talking about them. Take care and God bless.
Donna Wickman
Orlando
FL
I heard about Ann Marie and my thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family. Please know I am thinking of you all. Janet (Rans)Knight
Janet (Rans) Knight
Parker
CO
Wow! What a beautiful picture of Ann Marie. I worked with her in Santa Barbara. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends. May she forever rest in peace.
Rosie
Santa Barbara
CA
My Little Bit~ I can still remember your first day at Tri-Counties, your laugh and your smile as you always bashed your eyes! Your presence and humor will be deeply missed by myself and others. I will always remeber our special talks. Thank you for being YOU! May god bless you and your family whom you loved so very much. Rest in Peace little one.
Nicole Rosborough
Carpinteria
CA
My sincere sympathy to you and your family in the loss of Ann Marie. I was a classmate of Ann's from both the good ole days of St. Mary's and the class of "1981". I "echo" the statement that Ann had an amazing ability to fit in with any crowd -- any time. That is what made her so special to so many people.
Ann (Klein) McDowell
Manchester
IA
Ann Marie, you left this earth way too soon. I'm still in such shock. When I heard, I started calling people right away because I knew everyone would want to know. Everyone I talked with had such great fun memories about you. Your beautiful personality will be forever missed. I also am a highschool classmate of Ann Maries and we have kept in touch thru the years. The last time I saw her was at Johns funeral. She couldn't believe that we drove up. Like I told her,"We wouldn't be any other place." I hope Ann Marie knew how much I loved her. She will be so sadly missed. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Deb Gibbs
Manchester
IA
I will miss you Ann Marie! You were one of the sweetest people I have ever met. I enjoyed running into you because you always had a great big smile. I will miss that smile.
Sonia Qualls
Ventura
CA
I want to share with Ann Marie's family how special she was to us here at the Regional Center here in California. I always knew her to be professional, kind and very helpful. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during your time of sorrow and healing. May God Bless you, Karen
Karen Harris
santa maria
CA
I have no idea what to say. Ann Marie's death is a shock and complete saddness for all who knew her and truly appreciated the love and laughter in her heart. I am writing this to her family. Ann Marie and I worked together at Casa Dorinda and I had been her supervisor for awhile when she was our activities director. She made me laugh every day and frequently joked that some day she would marry my son, who will be 19 next week. She first met him when he was 8 and he immediately fell for her and followed her everywhere when he would come to work with me. He is completely crushed by her passing. Like everyone, we all wish we had had the chance to say goodbye. If I had the chance, I would have told Ann Marie how much I loved her and what a completely beautiful person she was. I'm so sad for the difficulties she had after leaving Casa Dorinda. That was a hard time. But please know that your beautiful daughter, sister, and aunt was deeply loved out here in SB and she helped more people in her short years than most anyone I know. You raised a wonderful person who will be missed very much. I am so incredibly sorry and sad for your loss.
Denise Skinner
Santa Barbara
CA
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you all, I will always remember all to wonderful times we all had as we were growing up. I love you all.
Jennifer Goerdt
Solon
IA
Ann Marie was a very dear friend. She was so complex. She was bright - and shadowed; funny - and melancholy; and always intelligent, and sharp, and steadfast in her friendship. She was like a second sister to me, a sister who would help me, encourage me, laugh or cry with me, argue with me, and always, in the end, let me know how much she loved and cared about me. She said once that although most people like sweet things, or salty, she was different: "I'm a savory girl." The dictionary defines savory as, "piquant, spicy, zesty." She was, indeed, a savory girl. Ann Marie felt the pains and joys of life so deeply. Most of us remember her laugh - her strong, deep laugh that made us laugh, too. She was not blind to the intricacies of life, or hardship, or tragedy - she just had a profound understanding and acceptance that would prevail. No matter what the situation, eventually, she would laugh at the tragic beauty of it all. Of life. I catch myself wanting to call her after work; or seeing a glimpse of her walking past my office; or hearing her voice. It won't be easy to go forward without her - but we all know she would find a way to lift our spirits, to encourage each of us to live in the sunlight and rain, in the tears and the joy - like she did. We all love you, and will forever miss you, Ann Marie.
Cathy Berry
Santa Barbara
CA
Ann Marie, you were such a joy to be around. You treated every one like they were your special friend. I will miss your laugh the most. Your passing has made me reflect on the fact that every day we have is a gift from GOD. My prayers to your family. Love, Sally (TCRC)
Sally Mendoza
Carpinteria
CA
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Ann Marie. I worked with her at Casa Dorinda. She was my friend for many many years even after her and I left there. We lost touch this passed year but she was still in my thoughts each and everyday. I used to have the longest talks with her on the phone about everything. She helped me out, listened and gave me advice about everything. We laughed, cried, and argued with each other. She would always invite me over when it was the holidays and her mom and dad were still in Santa Barbara. I would go over to her house and have a wondeful meal and visit with her and her parents. It ment so much to me that she always thought about me during the holidays knowing that my family is back east. Ann Marie was one of the kindest people that I have ever known. She cared so much for others and always tried her best to make everyone happy. I will deeply miss her and I will never forget her. My thoughts and prayers go out to her and her family.
Jennifer Linski
Santa Barbara
CA
Even though we haven't been in touch since we graduated, Ann Marie has been in my thoughts throughout these years. She was a very kind,beautiful and generous person. We had a blast growing up together! She will be missed....my sympathies are with the entire family.
Teri (Brooks) Frost
Englewood
CO
Ann Marie, what can i say...you were to me more than just another co-worker, you were a good friend, a good listener and most of all you were my partner in crime. And i know i was yours as well. Thank you for all the great memories we shared and all that you did for me. Thank you! "Life's a dream, and when you die you wake up to reality" ... see you at the crossroads my dear friend! god bless.....
SERGIO ARREOLA
SANTA BARBARA
CA
What can I say Ann Marie I'm still in shock of this sad news. You were always there to listen to me when I needed someone to talk to. You made working at TCRC so much fun. You will be missed. May we one day meet again....
Leti Quiroga
Santa Barbara
CA
I just wanted to send my condolences to the family and close friends of Ann Marie. What a beautiful smile!
Laurel Pronk
Marion
IA
Ann Marie...what can I say that everybody else has not already said? Your laugh, I will forever remember,cherish and miss that laugh. I am saddened that you left this world way too soon but seek solice in the fact that I know you are in a better place. You will be greatly missed by many.
Wendy Watson-Morgan
Oxnard
CA
Feld Family, My heart goes out to all of you at this difficult time. I remember when Angie and I were younger we use to go into Ann Marie's bedroom (which was suppose to be off limits) and talk about how we were going to be just like her when we grow up and have all the friends that she had! She was such fun person and she always knew how to make you smile. I will always remember her telling me when I got in trouble at my paino lessons once "that it's alright, she may get upset but don't worry Mom still loves you!!!" You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Valerie Waterhouse
Iowa CIty
IA
Hello Shorty after I met Ann Marie I came down sick, and had to say home about noon Ann Marie stopped apartment with a bottle of Tyenol and some ice cream and said "Ice Cream makes everything better." She was correct like chicken noodle soup, ice cream does make you feel better. Other thing I learned about Ann Marie is she really liked coffee if her coffe mug was forgotten about (and some times it was.) I would take to her office and say Your coffee Mama. Now Ann Marie can drink all the office she wants. So don't drink any coffee, drink Ann Marie's brand now comes leaded & Unleaded. Ann Marie you will be missed. Randy
Randy
SAnta Barbara
CA
Hello Ann Marie it's me again, it seems I cry every time I think of which is often so may have get some couseling for this. You were a real gem of person you always ready to listen & talk about things so don't forget to eat some ice cream. You will missed take care. Randy
Randy
Santa Barbara
CA
Dearest Feld Family, Our hearts go out to each and every one of you. It is hard to believe this has happened. I think we are still in shock. We want you to know we are here for you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Michael, Annette, Cole, and Max Jasper
Michael and Annette Jasper
Gilbert
AZ
Ann Marie was a vivacious redhead who was kind and fun and always had a smile. This is what I remember from high school (class of 1981). I remember summers at Backbone where a group of us would 'lay out' and she would put her beautiful hair in a towel! As your hearts try to understand, one day you will know that God had a different plan for her. With sympathy and sadness, Kay Bunn
Kay (Wilson) Bunn
Maynard
IA
Sorry to hear about Ann Marie's death, she was a good friend.
sigridbremer
simi valley
CA
I was a classmate of Anne-Marie's. My deepest sympathy goes out to the family and friends. One of the coolest things of our senior year, was having her as our homecoming queen.
Tim Manternach
Bloomington
MN
My sincere sympathy goes out to Ann Marie's family and her loved ones. Ann Marie was one of my special bridesmaids and a very dear friend when I was married in 1981. I've thought of Ann Marie often and wondered where she was and where her life and love had taken her. My brother, Tim, informed me of Ann Marie's passing. My heart is so saddened by your loss. I will always remember Ann Marie as an incredible, lively, "lucky go", highly witted soul, always wearing a smile upon her beautiful face. She will be deeply missed. My heart felt prayers and sympathy go out to you all. Sincerely, Tammy Wilgenbusch
Tammy (Manternach) Wilgenbusch
Dyersville
IA
Ann Marie was a classmate of mine in 1981. The one thing that stands out in my mind is how she would talk to anyone and made a very beautiful homecoming queen. She was always a happy go lucky person and had such an infectious smile and laugh. She cared for everyone and even tho we have not been in touch since high school I still feel I have lost a part of her to the angels and GOD has a plan for her and he has picked on of the very best. My deepest sympathy to all as I pray for all of you and your families. Delores (Nachtman)Hermsen
Delores Nachtman Hermsen
Dyersville
IA
I was looking for Ann Marie on Facebook and came across her memorial page. It's November, and her passing was in March...I'm in absolute shock. She worked with my husband and I at the Lompoc Record back in 1991. She was so amazing and a tremendous friend. I have many memories of her, but my favorite is when she came to our wedding. Our wedding happened to fall on Daylight Savings Time and she missed the ceremony. She showed up to the reception an hour late and we invited her to sit at our table. Our good friend Gaila saw her and said, "Isn't it just like Ann Marie to show up late and end up with THE BEST SEAT IN THE HOUSE??" She just laughed that amazing laugh and we laughed along. We've kept in contact over the years, but lost touch about 18 months ago. I've been missing her...but I'll miss her even more now. Liz and Scott Corey